Am I Being too Secretive?

[Brown-N-Sexy4]

Ok so there's this guy.

His name is Sam.
[of course-].So, he
s really cool [he's my bestie]
But see we were suppose to be cuddy buddies. BUT, we didn't do it cuz I'm not quite ready yet. And so, Im not cut out to have a full on sexual relationship. Well, atleast because I'm starting to like him. But no one knows. [not even HIM]

So like we tlk on FACEBOOK ALOT, like it's pretty ridiculous. But for a while I haven't talked to him on facebook becuase my OTHERRRR bestie told me he LOVED me.
& at first I couldn't chose lol.and STILL CNT
[dats not da point cuz i still cnt choose but will soon]

So, one day, me & sam r sitting in the autotoriam in skool. And every1 was lookin at a play. So after the play was over we were all chillin waiting to go to lunch.

So, this dude[1 of sam's associates] RANDOMLY turns to me &says

"YOU LIKE SAM!!!"

So we all like---DA FUCK!!?!!?!!?!!!?!!!?!!!?!!?!!?!!
Like WHERE is this comin' from?!?--so effin random.

So I shake my head&say "No I don't"

And I slightly glance at Sam who looks HURT by what I said.

And the dude says "You're a fuckin LIAR, you like Sam AND SAM likes YOU!!!"

And I say "That's not true."

And I look over at Sam&he kinda mumbles "Yo chill chill yo."
So I'm just about to CRY right now. [I know
it's LAME, I'mma drama Queen lol]
And the dude says "You're such a liar. You're always on facebook tlkin to Sam."

And I say all robotically lol
[once again lying hard]:

"No I don't."

So I glance at Sam again&he looks hurt just so hurt.

BUT here's the point;

Do u guys think I'm too secretive?

Like cuz I could've BEEN HONEST.
&
Some people say like I probably hurt Sam because he let his homeboys know &I denied it &lied&I'm a bitch.

But I SIMPLY can't help it. I don' think it's ANYBODY'S business about Sam&I's relationship.

I feel like if we're cuddy buddy's it's OUR Business, if we're friends it's OUR business, if we like 1 another it's OUR business, if we tlk on the net alot it's OUR business not the whole world.

So like; am I being too secretive cuz I want no 1 to know about it?

[SheerRandomness.]

First Of All.
Home Boy Needs To Mind His Damn Buisness.
Pfft.
So What?
If I Like Him..
I Don't Like You.
So Therefore Its None Of Ya Damn Beezwax.
Nigga Its Between Me & Sam.
But...
Maybe You Should..
Tell Sam How You Feel.
It'll Do You Some Good.

[BLACK EMO CHICK \m^_^m/]

your not really being secretive but ummm i think you should just tell sam how you really feel and stop denying it before he becomes discouraged to take further interest in you....
O.o

[Brown-N-Sexy4]

Originally Posted by BLACK EMO CHICK \m^_^m/

your not really being secretive but ummm i think you should just tell sam how you really feel and stop denying it before he becomes discouraged to take further interest in you....
O.o

Originally Posted by SheerRandomness.

First Of All.
Home Boy Needs To Mind His Damn Buisness.
Pfft.
So What?
If I Like Him..
I Don't Like You.
So Therefore Its None Of Ya Damn Beezwax.
Nigga Its Between Me & Sam.
But...
Maybe You Should..
Tell Sam How You Feel.
It'll Do You Some Good.

THANKS FOR THE HELP

U GUYS!!!

And that WOULD
help the situation if I told Sam.

I keep saying I will but
NEVER get to it.

lol

I'm too chicken.

BUT I truly
will today or
2morrow
for sure

[LatinaChica14]

yes hunni u kinda are but shit idnt blame u ive been in ur situation!! lol
bt see u gota avoid those kind of situations that u were in if ur gna contiune 2 hav yo lil cuddy buddys

[313ladyhustler]

I kinda thought that u were wrong... cuz right now ya are just friends and ya not even doing it yet... and I understood why he looked hurt u could of atleast admit it or shake yo head its like u were denying him! iI mean you know u like sam and it doesnt matter what the rest thinks you are not commited to no nigga and u can do wateva u want but atleast don't hurt his feelings I mean if they asked u like did u and Sam fuck then u coulda been like no cuz u dont want yo biz out there but it was just an if u like him question... are u ashame of him

[So AH-Mazinn93]

it all depends on the purpose and your emotions.
1) what are were your feelings?
2) were you embarrassed?
3) are you sorry because you hurt his feelings or because like him?

make sure you talk to sam.
as for old boy putting you on blast, f_ck him. lol
-Tracey

[Brown-N-Sexy4]

[quote=So AH-Mazinn93;5152350]it all depends on the purpose and your emotions.
1) what are were your feelings?
2) were you embarrassed?
3) are you sorry because you hurt his feelings or because like him?

make sure you talk to sam.
as for old boy putting you on blast, f_ck him. lol
-Tracey[/quote]

1.i was feelin ANGRY
like sam's friend was
a TOTAL DICK
lmao
2.i didn't really feel
quite embarrassed like
dat cuz every1 was just
confused and knew denise
was bein an ass.
3.and for the third
QUESTION ---BOTH.

Originally Posted by 313ladyhustler

I kinda thought that u were wrong... cuz right now ya are just friends and ya not even doing it yet... and I understood why he looked hurt u could of atleast admit it or shake yo head its like u were denying him! iI mean you know u like sam and it doesnt matter what the rest thinks you are not commited to no nigga and u can do wateva u want but atleast don't hurt his feelings I mean if they asked u like did u and Sam fuck then u coulda been like no cuz u dont want yo biz out there but it was just an if u like him question... are u ashame of him

idk WHAT TO feel
about sam
as LAME as it sounds.

i DOUBT im ashamed
of him.. . . .

i choose TRAE because
i DID tlk to sam
about how denise
knew dat we tlk on
facebook and how
i like him
and all he did was play DUMB.

he had LIE ON TOP of lie.
dats why i said FUCK IT cnt
trust him neways

ashamed or NOT!!!

me and sam is a
complicated situation.

cnt BE STRESSED with such
an asshole.
my god lmao

he thinks the whole world
is revolved around him.

it's too much with sam. lmao

[313ladyhustler]

yeah dont get stress over him